First off, it is very important to know exactly what you want your marriage to look like. There is a saying, "If you don't know where you are going, any road will get you there.

"My job is to help both of you step back and look at the big picture, focusing at first on crystallizing in your minds exactly how you want your marriage to be different. We will work for small changes that will lead to bigger changes--differences that make a difference. I do not believe in overanalyzing a situation or in just using a talking cure.

The problem in marriages is often NOT that there is no communication but that the connection is not strong. Improve the connection and the communication will improve. People say "we don't communicate" when they often mean "we don't connect."

There are many strategies to improve a marriage without talking about it. Together we will strive to use what works. If you both are willing to make at least a short term commitment (with no exits) to improving your marriage, or are open to the possibility of making this commitment, then please contact me - Dr. Wiesner.

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You and I will cover all aspects of how to improve a marriage with this cutting-edge up to date techology.